Top 10 Sex Mistakes Men Do

         - Sex; The ultimate pleasure we can have in life, both emotionally and physically. However, some men really know how to mess it up by making some mistakes. Here are the top 10 of them, with their solutions, of course.

10: The Stubble

But women like beards you say? well they do. But unlike fully grown beards, the short hair of the stubble can be extremely annoying and very painful on a sensitive's woman's skin due to it's sharpness.

Can you imagine the pain of that thing if it was rubbed against the vagina?

Solution: Not all women see this as a problem, so ask your partner before shaving it completely or letting it grow.

9: Focusing On Orgasms

So let's be clear here. We have sex for two reasons only, to have children or for its pleasure, but mostly for its pleasure of course. Now how can you possibly enjoy yourself if you worry too much about giving your partner an orgasm? Too much thinking can and will lead to performance anxiety and maybe even erectile dysfunction. 

Solution: Be stupid. That's right. Shut down your brain, stop thinking and stop worrying too much and just enjoy.

8: No Foreplay

Most men believe that penetration and propulsion (a sophisticated decent way of saying deep & fast) will cause women to orgasm. Nope. It doesn't work like that.  The truth is many women don't orgasm vaginally and most women need about 20 minutes of foreplay to reach prime physical arousal. So how the hell could you skip that? One more thing, without sexual arousal; women may lack natural lubrication and decreased skin sensitivity; which is a huge problem.

Solution: 20 Extra minutes will not harm you. Do the foreplay, and be creative about it.

7: Focusing On The Clitoris

Guys often give the clitoris too much attention than wanted; because the clitoris gives very strong sensations. So, logically, it's the best place to start, right? Yes. However, men tend to focus on it, ignoring other parts completely midway through the intercourse, and that's the problem here.

Solution: Explore beyond the clitoris (without completely leaving it), and try the parts of the vulva that include the clitoral hood, inner and outer lips.

6: No Intimacy

Men tend to think that the best sex is wild sex, just having sex with every woman he could get his hands on. However, this is very wrong, as the best sex is the one that you have within the cover of a great intimacy. As men grow older, according to a lot of studies, the men's area of sexual arousal in the brain changes and they may need more 'emotional arousal', especially around the age of 40.

Solution: Talk to your partner about more commitment (Take the next step) or at least set some time aside for date nights and romantic gestures to improve your emotional connection.

5: No Preparations

So let's imagine this, you are about to have sex, when all of a sudden you can't find the lube, can't find your condoms or someone busts you. That's a boner killer, right? Yes, It Is.

Solution: Take more time to consider everything, by making what feels right to you and making sure everything is OK. And remember to always get tested for STDs at least once a year.

4: Comparing Partners

So you have an ex that used to do something in a really great way that you liked (Sexually of course) and you expect that from your new partner. WRONG. That's just terribly wrong, as comparing partners will always be hurtful no matter it's level. Just because you saw something in some dirty porn scene doesn't mean your partner will like it.

Solution: Talk openly with your partner, find common grounds that you both will like and never compare her to anyone.

3: Fear Of New Things

Sexual desires are probably the most diverse things on the planet. So it's nearly impossible for 2 people to share the exact same desires. So when you're talking to your partner, she suddenly wants to try something that you've never imagined doing; so you become afraid of trying it. that's just horribly wrong, how can you tell it's bad if you haven't even tried it before?

Solution:  If you REALLY don't want to participate in their turn-on (Feels disgusting or a complete turn off to you), let her down easy and smooth.  If you're not sure if you'd like what she likes, consider expanding your horizons. However,  remember to stop if something is making you or her uncomfortable or hurts.

2: Too Serious

Men tend to forget that sex is supposed to be fun.  Whether we're too focused on how we're performing, how we look, or what we should be doing next, many of the experts agree that people need to relax a little more in the sack.

Solution: Have fun and laugh. Sex can be both fun and funny. It's okay to laugh when there are weird noises, or your dog jumps on the bed, or someone falls off the bed.

1: Little Communication

This is the one point that all experts agree that it is an issue many people should address when it comes to sex. Whatever your situation, everyone's sexual experiences can benefit from better communication.

Solution: Stop making assumptions and just like trying new things; start asking your partner about what she likes, doesn't like or what she needs more of. Better communication will always lead to better sex. Even the during sex tips like "move right" or "slow down" can be very rewarding.